Comments on: School Bully http://babybokchoi.blogsome.com/2009/04/29/school-bully/ A Journal of Me and My Miracle - Chloe Sun, 12 Feb 2012 01:14:22 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=1.5.1-alpha by: Phing http://babybokchoi.blogsome.com/2009/04/29/school-bully/#comment-11613 Thu, 07 May 2009 05:49:34 +0100 http://babybokchoi.blogsome.com/2009/04/29/school-bully/#comment-11613 Hi, this reminds me of what is happening to my daughter (12 years old) now. Her classmate has just been transferred to her class recently. She suffers from "Attention Deficit Hyperactivity Disorder (ADHD)". She shot rubber band & threw books at my girl, chase people around and sms my girl that it is very funny. Sometimes, she knows that she has been naughty but she couldn't help her. I quite sympathise with her but on the other hand, I am afraid that she might cause injury and distraction to my daughter's studies in school. She is giving the teachers great headache too. Maybe your daughter's friend is suffering from this. Hi, this reminds me of what is happening to my daughter (12 years old) now. Her classmate has just been transferred to her class recently. She suffers from “Attention Deficit Hyperactivity Disorder (ADHD)”. She shot rubber band & threw books at my girl, chase people around and sms my girl that it is very funny. Sometimes, she knows that she has been naughty but she couldn’t help her. I quite sympathise with her but on the other hand, I am afraid that she might cause injury and distraction to my daughter’s studies in school. She is giving the teachers great headache too. Maybe your daughter’s friend is suffering from this.

]]> by: Phing http://babybokchoi.blogsome.com/2009/04/29/school-bully/#comment-11612 Thu, 07 May 2009 05:47:38 +0100 http://babybokchoi.blogsome.com/2009/04/29/school-bully/#comment-11612 Hi, this reminds me of what is happening to my daughter (12 years old) now. Her classmate has just been transferred to her class recently. She suffers from "Attention Deficit Hyperactivity Disorder (ADHD)". She shot rubber band & threw books at my girl, chase people around and sms my girl that it is very funny. Sometimes, she knows that she has been naughty but she couldn't help her. I quite sympathise with her but on the other hand, I am afraid that she might cause injury and distraction to my daughter's studies in school. She is giving the teachers great headache too. Maybe your daughter's friend is suffering from this. Hi, this reminds me of what is happening to my daughter (12 years old) now. Her classmate has just been transferred to her class recently. She suffers from “Attention Deficit Hyperactivity Disorder (ADHD)”. She shot rubber band & threw books at my girl, chase people around and sms my girl that it is very funny. Sometimes, she knows that she has been naughty but she couldn’t help her. I quite sympathise with her but on the other hand, I am afraid that she might cause injury and distraction to my daughter’s studies in school. She is giving the teachers great headache too. Maybe your daughter’s friend is suffering from this.

]]> by: Syari http://babybokchoi.blogsome.com/2009/04/29/school-bully/#comment-11609 Wed, 06 May 2009 07:00:01 +0100 http://babybokchoi.blogsome.com/2009/04/29/school-bully/#comment-11609 My husband and I spoke about this sometimes when we were talking about sending our daughter to kindy end of this year. So I casually told Bonnie if she ever gets bullied, punch the bully right in between the eyes. Real hard if possible. LOL I know I'm a bad parent. LOL She's not in school yet even. Truth be told, I wouldn't know what to do until it really happens. Don't worry of course I won't ask Bonnie to hit. *Maybe I'd go and see the bully myself and threaten him, if he lay another finger on my daughter again I'd go and skin him myself.* Mua ha ha ha My husband and I spoke about this sometimes when we were talking about sending our daughter to kindy end of this year. So I casually told Bonnie if she ever gets bullied, punch the bully right in between the eyes. Real hard if possible. LOL I know I’m a bad parent. LOL

She’s not in school yet even. Truth be told, I wouldn’t know what to do until it really happens. Don’t worry of course I won’t ask Bonnie to hit. *Maybe I’d go and see the bully myself and threaten him, if he lay another finger on my daughter again I’d go and skin him myself.* Mua ha ha ha

]]> by: BW http://babybokchoi.blogsome.com/2009/04/29/school-bully/#comment-11607 Tue, 05 May 2009 13:12:57 +0100 http://babybokchoi.blogsome.com/2009/04/29/school-bully/#comment-11607 Hi, I don't really have a kid of my own but I thought maybe you would like to have a view on the kid's perspective. I think I could still remember back in kindie and junior school,I hated it when my mom confronted my classmates or their parents.Everytime she does it, my friends ended up shunning me. I tried once bringing some snacks and went up to the girl who bullied me. Told her I don't like it when she hits me. I asked if I could play with her and I gave her my chocolate. Maybe you can try asking Chloe to go to school or you can go to school with her, find that boy and prob tell him that Chloe wants to be his friend and would he play with her? See how it goes. If he still hits her, then only you tell the principal. By the way, I watch movies on your blog. Thanks so much. BW Hi, I don’t really have a kid of my own but I thought maybe you would like to have a view on the kid’s perspective. I think I could still remember back in kindie and junior school,I hated it when my mom confronted my classmates or their parents.Everytime she does it, my friends ended up shunning me. I tried once bringing some snacks and went up to the girl who bullied me. Told her I don’t like it when she hits me. I asked if I could play with her and I gave her my chocolate. Maybe you can try asking Chloe to go to school or you can go to school with her, find that boy and prob tell him that Chloe wants to be his friend and would he play with her? See how it goes. If he still hits her, then only you tell the principal.

By the way, I watch movies on your blog. Thanks so much.

BW

]]> by: Big Pumpkin http://babybokchoi.blogsome.com/2009/04/29/school-bully/#comment-11606 Tue, 05 May 2009 11:37:13 +0100 http://babybokchoi.blogsome.com/2009/04/29/school-bully/#comment-11606 Tee gets bullied too. I would watch very closely (talk to Chloe everyday) and ask for the boy's mother's phone number and I would even have a word with the boy myself. Tee gets bullied too. I would watch very closely (talk to Chloe everyday) and ask for the boy’s mother’s phone number and I would even have a word with the boy myself.

]]> by: Charming http://babybokchoi.blogsome.com/2009/04/29/school-bully/#comment-11605 Tue, 05 May 2009 09:02:43 +0100 http://babybokchoi.blogsome.com/2009/04/29/school-bully/#comment-11605 It's a challenge for all parents on how to deal with bullying of any kind. It's good that Chloe knows to inform the teacher and her parents. That's important, the child must feel that she has someone to run to and get support. It's also good to talk to the teacher, makes them aware that you're not going to turn a blind eye. If it happens again, and the teacher is still playing it down, I would go to the principal. My eldest girl was bullied too at school a few years ago, she is 10 now. It was not a punch or anything but words that were said about her because of her race. I rang the teacher that same day and then went in to speak to her and worked out a resolution. Of course, with all things there are two sides to the story. But the teacher spoke to the other girl and got to the bottom of it. I was happy with how it was resolved. After that incident, we also had a chat with Ashleigh about being more resilient and how to react in future. You know "sticks and stones may break my bones, but words are not going to hurt me". Good luck! It’s a challenge for all parents on how to deal with bullying of any kind. It’s good that Chloe knows to inform the teacher and her parents. That’s important, the child must feel that she has someone to run to and get support. It’s also good to talk to the teacher, makes them aware that you’re not going to turn a blind eye. If it happens again, and the teacher is still playing it down, I would go to the principal. My eldest girl was bullied too at school a few years ago, she is 10 now. It was not a punch or anything but words that were said about her because of her race. I rang the teacher that same day and then went in to speak to her and worked out a resolution. Of course, with all things there are two sides to the story. But the teacher spoke to the other girl and got to the bottom of it. I was happy with how it was resolved. After that incident, we also had a chat with Ashleigh about being more resilient and how to react in future. You know “sticks and stones may break my bones, but words are not going to hurt me”. Good luck!

]]> by: Rose http://babybokchoi.blogsome.com/2009/04/29/school-bully/#comment-11604 Tue, 05 May 2009 04:02:51 +0100 http://babybokchoi.blogsome.com/2009/04/29/school-bully/#comment-11604 I saw with my own eyes a boy pushed my daughter twice when she tried to put her hands on his shoulder during a queueing up session. Teacher didnt see the incident. My gal cried of course, she not used to such bully... I told her, in case in future it happens or anyone bully or hit her, she needs to go directly to the teacher and tell teacher who bully or hit her, instead of fighting or hit back (which I doubt it).....I know, they are kids, and they are young, but seeing own daughter been bullied, really make my heart turned to her....and like you said, wanted the right thing for our own kid! :0 I saw with my own eyes a boy pushed my daughter twice when she tried to put her hands on his shoulder during a queueing up session. Teacher didnt see the incident. My gal cried of course, she not used to such bully… I told her, in case in future it happens or anyone bully or hit her, she needs to go directly to the teacher and tell teacher who bully or hit her, instead of fighting or hit back (which I doubt it)…..I know, they are kids, and they are young, but seeing own daughter been bullied, really make my heart turned to her….and like you said, wanted the right thing for our own kid! :0

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