May 27, 2007
You Bochup, I Bochup too..!
I always make it a point to REALLY read when i visit someone’s blog .. and if i do comment.. it’s not just yummy, good.. or just some comments that is meaningless. When i do comment.. i spend time thinking it out.. and also making sure.. that i donch sound abnoxious.. nor rude..! if i have nothing nice to say.. or to share … my experience.. usually i donch leave a comment. And yes.. i do go back.. and check out what the replies are.
Now.. when i visit a blog.. and then you see that you comments kenna deleted.. that makes me very the “tulan”!! Wau lau oi..!! i take time to comment.. read your blog/entry.. and you freaking delete my comment. Never reply never mind.. but delete my comment..!! Yup..!! ppl like that .. they can never expect me.. to visit their “high class” blog ever..!! You bochup..!! i too .. BoCHUP..! no lost to me..!! stay in your high and mighty blog.. and donch expect any sympathy .. or comfort.. when things donch work out for you and your LD relationship..!
Yes, I often comment from the bottom of my heart. Then I got people commented that I was rude to make such a long comment but I am glad the author knew me for a long time and defended on me that I am her good friend. So now, I also include a sentence that I hope i am not taking too much of yr space !
I hate it when people delete my comment, like they are some big shots or what ?
Cheers
Jamy from Sunshine florida.
Hey.. Jamy,
I think we all do .. comment sincerely .. i mean except for those shit-disturbers..!! Well.. i’m glad your friend defended you ..
i too get really pissy.. when ppl delete my comments..!! like you said.. like some big shot..!! and thank you for coming by my blog.. jamy..! will be visiting you more often too.. 
Comment by Jamy — May 27, 2007 @ 6:40 pm
oh gosh! how could anyone do that? Yes, I do read and comment in the best possible way, and not just a two-liner “nice blog” or “good post”… haha. I’m curious whose blog that was.
Hey…EE,
Yalor.. !! so rude right..??? especially when i REALLY take the time to read.. and then comment nicely..!! wah lau oi..!! like some big shot ya..!! you donch wanna know whose blog it is.. !! she was famous.. for causing alot of commotion.. within the blogosphere in Malaysia .. when she told ppl shouldn’t be writing free for a certain forum or something along those lines.. kekekkee!!
Comment by earthember — May 27, 2007 @ 8:10 pm
wow… that person is so rude ah…
btw, i have been trying to comment on your blog… don’t know why i kept getting error msg. wonder if this will go thru….
Hey.. CM,
Very rude lor..! according to what i think..!! Ya.. i already fixed it.. !
thanks for letting me know.. 
Comment by crazymommy — May 27, 2007 @ 9:21 pm
I never purposely delete people’s comments, so I hope it’s not me. But I just found out that some comments do appear under Spam if using askimet spam plug in wor. Now, I check all my spam before I delete them.
And thanks, I know you do put in your best advice when you comment. I can see the sincerity in it when I read your advice pertaining to my problem on handling my 2 monkeys
Hey… MLV,
Nope.. for sure.. it’s not you ..!! the person who did that .. thinks .. she is very “ATAS”… ?? maybe..?? Thank you .. for speaking up for me..
when i do comment.. it 100% carefully thought out.. 
Comment by My Lil Venture — May 27, 2007 @ 10:19 pm
strange why the blog owner would delete ur comment if given in good faith. unless she didn’t like what u said?? often, i think before i leave comments. but i’ve learnt not to comment on relationships unless they’re bloggers i’m already familiar with…just in case i piss pple off. i’ve a knack of doing that! ;P
Hey.. Imp,
I really donch know.. but my comment was no where rude..
and if you know me.. you would know.. i would never, never imposed my opinions on others.. nor try to offend them..! But prolly that blogger thinks she is very “atas” .. so didn’t like my comment lor.. 
But never mind lah.. not my lost..! hers..!
Comment by imp — May 28, 2007 @ 12:57 am
Could the person have butterfly fingers? But I know what you mean. That’s why I don’t anyhow comment also. It’s not just to show face, like look I visited your blog. But sometimes I can’t help but thinking that it’s like I scratch your back, and you must scratch mine.
I will delete comments only from those anonymous trying to stir shit. But lucky very few.
Hey.. SS,
Doubt so..! You also know i donch anyhow comment one.. but quite hurt lor..
but never mind lah.. her lost.. not mine..!
Comment by sesame — May 28, 2007 @ 1:08 am
My….whose blog is that?? *very kaypoh*
Never mind, I chup you 
Hehehe!! lucky you chup me.. !! hahhaha!! that blogger thinks she is quite famous lor..!! malaysia blogger..!
Comment by Barbara Ng — May 28, 2007 @ 1:19 am
Yup, i agreed with you, when i leave comments i make sure it make sense and i really mean what i wrote…to delete someone else’ comments seem rather rude huh? But never mind lah, you still have us mah…hehe..:)1
Hey..Eileen,
Lucky .. i still have all you good bloggers..! no lost to me.. that “one” for sure..!
Comment by Eileen — May 28, 2007 @ 6:17 am
definitely not me leh! i don’t delete one! not me right?
Hey..SP,
Definitely not you .. my dear..
Comment by Sweetpea — May 29, 2007 @ 1:18 am
wah I panicked when I read the title… cos I tot it was about me… only after reading further then realize not. Anyways, take it easy! You still got plenty of ppl reading your blog =) Nowsadays I don’t comment much but I still try to read the usual blogs. =D
Hey..Gracie,
Oopsie..!! sorry i made you panicked. Definitely not you lah..!! yer mum taught you well..!! i can never imagine you doing something like that. I mean.. if it was a bad comment.. i can understand.. but you know me.. Gracie.. if i had nothing better to say.. i donch comment..!
Comment by gracie — May 29, 2007 @ 3:34 am
MB, now u got me so very the curious!! I wont be able to sleep until I could figure out who, who, who?? Can hint the age? Is it 40+?? hahha then i can roughly agak agak who lah. cannot reveal nevermind MB, i very understanding one, hahaha
Hey..G,
Hhahaa!! nope.. not 40+ .. i think she is in her late 20s or early 30s .. ! wears glasses.. kekekekek! malaysian..!
Comment by G @ mommibee.com — May 31, 2007 @ 1:13 am
hehe MB thanks for the hint. i give up liao, i dont think i hv visited enough blogs to guess who
Comment by G @ mommibee.com — May 31, 2007 @ 8:45 pm
eer, i hope it’s not me because I am a Malaysian in my late 20s …wear glasses, and I seldom reply my comments ….
but i don’t delete the comments unless they are placed in a wrong place and I will only delete it after i shift them to the correct page …. (the template in my blog is a bit crazy …)
i truly appreciate your words in my blogs … sorry that I am not so attentive when it comes to the comments but i do read them … similarly, i do read your blog… it’s just, i am lazy to retype all the demographics over and over again …
you’re a nice blogger … i am sure everyone is very appreciative to have the chance to interact with a nice person like you.
Comment by greenapple — June 6, 2007 @ 10:39 pm